One of the best negotiation tactics is right in front of you


Hi friends,

One of the best negotiation tactics is right in front of you:

Watch how recruiters negotiate with you!

Many recruiters are proficient at the art of gentle power:

→ They frame questions strategically
→ They use battle-tested responses that protect their leverage
→ They stay professional under pressure
→ They follow up consistently
→ They often make the relationship feel close and positive

Do the same with them and all the other interviewers!

→ When you’re negotiating, be mindful of how you frame your questions and asks
→ Always stay professional
→ Keep the relationship positive
→ Be gentle and respectful with negotiations

One caveat: this is not about simply mirroring recruiters.

Certainly learn from what they do well.

But also stay true to your values no matter what:

Stay cordial and professional.

Don’t overshare even if encouraged or pressured to do so.

And don’t take things personally.

Best,

Gerta & Alex
Cofounders, YourNegotiations.com

P.S. Are you job searching or have upcoming negotiations?

Book a free call with us, where we’ll learn more about your situation, offer some free tips, and explore if we’re a good fit to work together: https://calendly.com/alexhapki/call

P.P.S. Know someone interested in negotiations?

Send them our way and we’ll thank you with $500 for each person who becomes a client. No cap.

A quick intro or an email to alex@yournegotiations.com works.

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Gerta & Alex will teach you how to negotiate and add up to 5-to-6 figures to your compensation. They are the founders of YourNegotiations.com, offering consulting and training to help people become stronger negotiators in the workplace. They are negotiation experts, ex-Instagram, ex-LinkedIn, trained by world-class negotiators at Harvard and MIT, and their clients increase their compensation by an average of $90K over the initial offer.

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